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Regret not getting this cape from J.Crew….sigh.

Taking after my grandparents who had a coat for every 10 degrees, I have a rapidly growing collection. Coats complete the entire outfit. It is a great way to not have to sacrifice your style just because there is a little snowstorm happening.
Ugh winter, not ready. 

One style I have been eyeing, oh forever, is the classic cape. The easy to throw on, feminine design is an elegant alternative. Finding the perfect one has been somewhat of a process, as I haven’t quite found the perfect one for me. Last year I almost took the plunge with this Adrienne Landau coat, but couldn’t get myself to spend that much. As my search continues, here are some options that I am considering.

Yesterday I finally watched the documentary FED UP.  Following the personal lives of over-weight teenagers and their struggle with food consumption, this film focuses on how our nation still has a (growing) problem with obesity. Our children are getting sicker and getting bigger. With a nation obsessed with exercise and appearance, it is disconcerting that we still have a huge obesity problem. People tend to think they can outrun a bad diet. That they can eat whatever they want and it is ok because they are very active. The truth is, they can not. Studies have shown that even people who look “skinny”, and may not gain weight from the foods they are eating, actually have symptoms of obesity. Their insulin levels are high, they are pre-diabetic, have heart problems, and their total body fat is high–yet they look “skinny” and healthy.  

Our thoughts on food and exercise is completely wrong. Look at professional sporting events, who is the sponsor? You guessed it–McDonalds, Pizza Hut, Pepsi. All unhealthy food choices. Even our school cafeterias are serving processed foods. Food Industries spend billions of dollars glamorizing their advertisements with a cheap and easy lifestyle, and it works. The government implements exercise programs and active lifestyle, yet feed into these campaigns. When even congress states that pizza is a vegetable, something is completely wrong here. 

The film is really eye-opening and makes you think twice about the foods we put into our bodies. I am no way a saint and my food choices are not flawless. I am as healthy of an eater as I possibly can be, but I do have a sweet tooth, pour honey into my tea, and enjoy a glass of wine or two. However, I know what my body is like when I eat foods that do not serve me. I know how my face and hair look, how my athletic performance is, how my stomach reacts, and how my mood is when I eat processed, sugar-filled foods. At the end of the day its our own choices that make up our lives. I think the film does a great job to help educate people to become fully aware and get involved in helping our children (and ourselves) make smarter choices. 

“Just get me a really BIG closet”

#Preach Bradshaw

It wasn’t until I lived in no space NYC that I fully came to appreciate Carrie asking Big to get her a huge closet instead of an engagement ring. Having a walk-in closet would not only look more organized, it would bring much happiness into my life. I would consider myself not so much a hoarder, but a collector of beautiful things. Sure I have clothing items that haven’t seen the light of day in a very long time, and some still have the price tag on them, but someday I promise I will wear them. I have thrown items away, only to wish I still had them when the right occasion came along.

Major regret. 

When I day-dream about my future walk-in closet, I imagine having a divan, chandeliers, fresh flowers, a vanity, and LOTS of storage space. And maybe I also imagine myself just like this while enjoying my sanctuary. 

So to my future husband: Just get me a really BIG closet……. and a diamond ring.